I still use icon to play with the character creator, but doing more than that just upsets me somehow depending on my mood at the moment. I do want the game back, but I'm not willing to torture myself forever.
Right now I'm just hoping one or more of the successors makes for a good home to the community. I think that is the best result I can hope for at this point.
EDIT: As for the stuff we pay for in these games, it's more rented or leased than bought. It kind of stinks, but I wish people would keep that in mind before they dump money in their hobby. It's the reason I force myself to stick to a limited gaming budget.