Yeah and then you have stuff like this.
Content sharing services like Facebook, Google+ and Livejournal are completely neutral, and your user experience is based on your own account usage. What that means is that someone who has carefully crafted their shared circles and content feeds will have a vastly different experience than the one you describe. I learned this a long time ago: I'm responsible for my own experience. If you leave Facebook behind, what you are more accurately doing is leaving your own pancakey Facebook circle behind. Those with better circles and experiences will continue to not know what you're going on about. I know the first mistake people make: thinking they need 800 "friends."
If this sounds terse, it's only because I can't do the editing-for-diplomatic-words I do on
almost every post. I gotta leave for work, but I just wanted to say: I've been where you're at on various content-sharing services, more than once; and what I did was, I took responsibility for the quality of my experience.